Friday, October 21, 2005

On radio today morning...

As I was getting ready today morning I was listening to this radio show" valentine in the morning" on Hot 101.9 FM..It usually plays some new hit peppy songs in the morning with some good natured fun going on between the presenters of the show :)... But today a girl Jaime( I think that was her name ) calls up and tells these guys on the show that she has been dating some guy for 6 months and he has asked her to move in with him..But she has a feeling that he is hiding something from her and she wants to check on him..
so Valentine pretends to be this guy calling from a Florist shop and tells this girls boyfriend(BF from now on..too lazy to type ..:D) that they are doing a promotion and his name got picked off some database and now he can send free 2 dozen red roses any person of his choice..and this dude names some other girl and asks them to send the flowers there...The girl Jaime was listening to this conversation all along.... and the minute the dude says the name and address of this other girl..Valentine steps in and says that he is on a radio show and that he has been busted and all..
The girl as u can imagine was very upset and she yelled at this guy for being unfaithful and this guy actually has the audacity to say that u have guys working with u and u are close to this Gay friend of yours..( which makes no sense to me why this guys should be jealous of a gay guy ...)...
The guy then hangs up the phone ..and this girl is crying on the phone...It seems to me like as much as she wanted to check on this guy she could not accept the fact that this guy was cheating on her..( even though in all fairness I think a guy sending some girl flowers do not qualify as absolute proof of cheating..still I think the girl needs to talk to his guy before making any major decisions...just my opinion)
After listening to this show..I started thinking about the concept of "washing your dirty linen in public"...I feel that the girl should have confronted the guy directly instead of comming on to a radio show ..for that matter there are lot of television"reality shows" that do this kind of thing too....I wonder wat motivates people to open their lives for everyone to see and comment on....
Also, once u have decided to check on your patner or someone..u need to be prepared for any consequences..becos there is a good probability that answer can be either one.....
so wat does the Junta here think about this...???
jeenu.

16 comments:

Rays Of Sun said...

Hey Jeens,

Me first:-) Will read n comment later..Oh damn! friday lab meetings..Sigh Sigh!

jeenu said...

hey ray
cool :)
well i hear ya..i have one on monday..well hope it goes well for you..
cheers
jeenu

Rays Of Sun said...

Ohh! Jeenu,

These amroos na...anyhow I dont want to give any racist comments here..but this is quite thought provoking. See, sending flowers is quite OK, but the guy had no right to retort anything about the gay friend of her's. Better still, she realized that this guy is not worth her toe-finger even before she moved in with him. Competely crazy!
If I were she, I would go to the guys house and give him one tight slap right on his face for having the audacity to tell her on the phone

aria said...

Ohh these "reality" shows are so silly. They hv started airing these kinna shows here too - proposing love n so on. But this - checking on some1 sounds so wierd. I'm of the opinion tht pvt life shud be kept pvt.

Rays Of Sun said...

Hehe:) MTV Bakra!

Thanu said...

I know people here are just out of their mind when they bring loved ones on TV to say that they are sleeping around or u r not the father of our child. I just think why can't they do it at the privacy of their home? If it is hard to do so, do it with the help of immediate family, friends, or therapist but not national TV. Then again these ppl get paind to be on TV, that may be the case. I don't think Jamie got paid in this case. 100% echo aria's feelings.

Ginkgo said...

Hmm yeah…wutz ur address Jeenu…:-P

Im pretty much sure that itz unfair to the ppl involved.
The blame falls on the guy first for sending the flowers to someone else…

But itz nullified by her by trying to find out in such a way….

Wait wait..wat am I doing…Now Jeenu don’t fall off ur’ chair

Wutz ur address again:-)

These flowers have been waiting too long at my desk..

jeenu said...

Gi
are the flowers dried..thanks for the thought anyways ..let them stay at u r desk for a little while :D
hey girls i thought i typed out a comment after thanu but seems like it was not published...:(
well the gist of it is that i agree with aria , thanu and ros that private life should be private...:)
it can be shared with people who cares about u and who u care about..:)
ROS i have met my share of nice amrus whose moral values are just like that..but i have met my share of namoonas too..Ms cry baby in my lab is an example for that..:)
aria cant believe we have all the reality hype in india ...well guess it was only a matter of time :)
cheers
jeenu

Bhole said...

You should watch Jerry Springer...

I wouldn't be comfortable discussing my private life in public.

Bhole

Kaala Kavva said...

I wonder wat motivates people to open their lives for everyone to see and comment on...

writing that on a blog..
is that an oxymoron ??
was it intended or am i just thinkin 2 much

Priya Sivan said...

Do u think anyone wld want to wash "dirty ;inen" in public? I feel that the shows are obviously exaggereated and made up.

jeenu said...

hey Ze
i mean in the context of testing a realtionship..doing something that u dont the answer to or when u are not ready for watever answer might come.. and then reacting to it..
hey priya
nice to see u..well some of the shows are definitely exaggerated ( jerry springer for example..)..i will agree to that but not all..
hey czar,
tat was so funny :))
anyways i guess ekta kapoor had that idea and spinned hazaar K series ..lolz
cheers
jeenu

Nandya said...

still stuck at the damn radio business are we...

its time to bury the past and move on girl..no use fighting old battles..he wont come back to u..look to the future...and the future is Nandya...

jeenu said...

hey nandu
when future seems bleak..we all get solace from looking at the past :D
lol
jeenu

Nandya said...

voila...such underhanded...vicious vile retort...below the belt commment...AAAAAHHHH...i am stilll hurting...

hmmmppphhh...nandya's ego is hurt now...no gal has responded with such audacity to his polite and gentlemanly advances...but fear not..nandya does not give up so easily....

jeenu said...

Hmmm
well nandu ji
dekhte hai...:)
cheers
jeenu